Why Do We Keep Having the Same Argument?

Ever feel like you're stuck in an endless loop, arguing about the same thing repeatedly? It's frustrating, exhausting, and, worst of all, nothing changes.

If this sounds familiar, you're not alone. Many relationships fall into a cycle of recurring fights. But why does this happen, and how do we break free?

The Real Reason Arguments Repeat

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